Some flavor of our discussions
(Including some of Rabbi Brenner's
writings and High Holiday sermons)
The programs of Congregation Bet Chesed place a high priority on
discussion of Jewish topics. These include our service and
discussion programs, our shmooz classes, and our Basic Judaism programs
(that sometimes morph into shmooz classes). So, what do we talk
about? Here are some examples.
Rabbi Brenner's book on
interfaith marriage
Halacha (Jewish Law)
Hospital chaplaincy issues
Ancient history and
modern controversies
High Holiday sermons
Rabbi Brenner's
book on interfaith marriage
Rabbi Brenner's book,
Jewish,
Christian, Chewish, and Eschewish:
Interfaith Marriage Pathways for the New Millennium, is an
outgrowth of his
extensive work with interfaith couples. Often, our discussions
are related to topics in his book.
It's difficult
to be a Jewish
Atheist
Moving to atheism from Christianity is relatively uncomplicated.
Christianity has one conception about God, and people who reject that
concept become atheists.
Judaism allows a wide range of conceptions about God. They range
from the idea of a personal God to concepts where God is "the
[impersonal] power that makes for fulfillment in the Universe."
Even the traditional Jewish concept is a God who is not necessarily
omnipotent, omnicient, or omnipresent, requiring humans to be partners
in creation. God can create wheat, but can't bake bread.
God can't bring on Shabbat by the setting of the sun; only the woman of
the house can bring on Shabbat by lighting the candles. God can
be argued with (as did Abraham), and can make mistakes and be sorry
about them. God can also become distracted as a result of having
created
other worlds and needing to attend to them.
The problem in being a Jewish atheist is that mere rejection of a
single concept of God isn't all that is needed. A person desiring
to become a Jewish atheist would need to search out and study all the
conceptions of God allowed within Judaism and reject each one
separately.
Read more details
here.
The Mansion of Jewish
Identity
At our Friday night event in November 2007, Rabbi Brenner discussed the
image of the Mansion of Jewish Identity, a metaphor that he developed
in his long experience in addressing the issues of interfaith marriage
and Jewish identity. The Mansion is held up by four pillars and
has rooms devoted to aspects of Jewish history, thought, and
culture. The four pillars are:
- Lineality (which can be
either patrilineal or matrilineal) or
conversion.
- Willful self-identification.
Ceremonially, Rabbi Brenner focuses on the statement "... asher bachar
banu ..." that occurs in the liturgy. Someone who utters these words
makes a statement of Jewish self-identification. (Rabbi Brenner
mentioned this ceremonial detail during the discussion, and it may be
one of the further aspects he plans to pursue.)
- The Mitzvah System. That
is the life cycle events, annual cycle of holiday observance, and other
mitzvot (such as ethical behavior, treatment of animals, kashrut, and
shabbat) -- the Jewish way of doing things.
- Torah/Judaism. For a Jew
faced with a question of religion, ethics, or similar nature, Jewish
tradition should be the first place to turn.
Rabbi Brenner says the Mansion can stand with three pillars in place,
although it will be structurally compromised. With less than three, it
collapses. A four pillar Mansion can have weak pillars and remain
standing.
Under this standard, Elvis Presley, who had Jewish matrilineal descent,
would not be considered Jewish because he did not self-identify or
observe the Mitzvah System. The same applies to Madeline Albright. In
both cases, Orthodoxy would regard them as Jewish, purely because of
their matrilineal descent. (Rabbi Brenner also often cites the example
of a Catholic nun who had Jewish matrilineal descent. Orthodoxy would
consider her Jewish. He would not.)
More details can be found
here.
Jewish status
of a non-Jewish spouse
The following is an excerpt from Rabbi Brenner's book:
"Presiding over a
congregation as rabbi, I am assigned the responsibility of welcoming
any Jew to our house of prayer, assembly and study. And I am obliged
to extend that warm reception to all others as well who seek
understanding of the Jewish heritage. ...
"We also swing and keep
the door of the house wide open to those identified as a "ger
toshav," a Settled Sojourner, that is, a non-Jew whose status is
different than other non-Jews in the Jewish perception. The Settled
Sojourner resides, or plans to reside, in a Jewish household. He or
she has become, or one day may become, a parent raising Jewish
children and, therefore, an "extension of the folk."
"Settled Sojourners ...
are constituents of an altogether distinct and profoundly unique
classification. They require very special attention ...
"Experience has shown
time
and again that raising Jewish children transforms, reconfigures or
"converts" a non Jewish parent to a ger toshav - variously
translated as a Settled Sojourner or an extension of the folk. "Not
precisely a Jew but close enough," as the wife, referring to her
husband of over 20 years with whom she raised their Jewish children,
observed."
The full section
discussing this is here.
Reworking
definitions of marriage
This is a brief excerpt
from a paper
titled “Intra-marriage, mitzva-marriage, mixed-marriage,
inter-marriage, and the family: Toward reworking definitions.”
Each paragraph has been shortened from the original.
“A Jewish Intra-Marriage
is a marriage between two individuals who were born Jews; or between
a born Jew and one who has been converted to Judaism; or between two
individuals converted to Judaism.
“A Mitva-Marriage is a
recently coined term to signify that a conversion to Judaism has
taken place prior to the marriage.A Mitzva-Marriage is a Jewish
Intra-Marriage; in reality, no different than any other Jewish
marriage.The term Mitzva (a positive act/commandment)-Marriage is
used only sociologically and not halachically. [Ed. note: “Halacha”
-- derived from the Hebrew for “to walk” -- means Jewish Law.]
“A Mixed-Marriage is a
marriage entered into by a Jew (born or converted to Judaism) and a
non-Jew.No Jewish continutity is planned or intended.In those rare
instances when a rabbi is asked to officiate, it is generally “only”
for the sake of a particular member of the family, such as a
grandparent.
“An Inter-Marriage is a
marriage between a Jew (born Jewish or converted to Judaism) and a
non-Jew.The couple has decided in favor of Jewish continuity.Th
couple will establish a Jewish home in some form.The family is to be
identified Jewishly by synagogue affiliation as well.Children, if
any, are to be raised and educated Jewishly.A rabbi will be asked to
officiate at the wedding.”
More detail can be found
here
in Rabbi Brenner's book.
Halacha (Jewish Law)
Occasionally we discuss aspects of Jewish Law, known as Halacha
(literally, The Way). Here are examples of some of our
discussions:
Reform
Halacha
Jewish Law consists of the Torah, the Talmud, the codes (such as the
Shulkhan Aruch -- literally the Prepared Table) and the responsa
literature. The responsa are questions and answers, usually
questions by rabbis and answers by Halachic experts. Since the
early 1900's the Reform Movement has had a responsa committee.
The Reform Respnsa usually cite the same Halachic sources as the
traditional responsa, but often arrive at different conclusions.
About once a year, Rabbi Brenner discusses some of the Reform
Responsa. There is an
index
to the Reform
Responsa, and many are linked from the index.
Rabbi
Brenner's explanation of Kashrut
At one of our Shmooz classes a few years ago, Rabbi Brenner gave his
synopsis of kashrut (Jewish Dietary Laws). Here is a summary of
his
points.
"Kashrut is built on four main principles:
- By what right are we
justified to put to death another living creature? If we are,
which
animals are permitted? For this principle we make a concession.
We
should all be vegetarians, but we are not there yet. Kashrut is a
waystation toward being vegetarian. The animals we are permitted
to
eat are vegetarian non-predators. The Torah states that the life
of an
animal is in its blood, so we create a legal fiction that if we do
not consume the blood we do not consume the life of the animal.
- If we have the right
to
consume another creature, how should that be done? (Note that
kosher
means appropriate, fit, or proper.) The principles here are to
minimize pain and to be kind to animals. The opposite of kosher
is
trefe, which means “torn.” We are not permitted to tear the flesh
of the animal in the process of slaughter. Judaism has other laws
regarding kindness to animals, such as the Torah requirement that the
mother bird must be chased away before taking the eggs.
- The concept of taboo
animals. There is no rationale for this taboo. The only
concept is
“yechh.” This also has the effect of group cohesion, because you
can only marry people you can have a meal with.
- The ultimate taboo
animal is the pig. This is historic. Nobody ever dangled a
shrimp over an
altar to get a renegade Jew to abandon Judaism, but this was done
repeatedly with the pig. One major instance is the story of
Chanukah.
Driving
on Shabbat
TO BE ADDED
Hospital chaplaincy issues
Rabbi Brenner having been both a U.S. Army chaplain and the Jewish
chaplain at NIH, we sometimes discuss issues involving the
chaplaincy.
Negative
effects of Clinical Pastoral
Education for Jewish patients
There is a movement called Clinical Pastoral
Education (CPE) that is attempting to create a "generic" hospital
chaplaincy. In this case, it turns out that "generic" means
Protestant-oriented. Rabbi Brenner was required to take classes
in CPE and wrote a
paper describing its
negative effects for Jewish
patients.
Ancient
history
and modern controversies
Extrabiblical
evidence
of
the Exodus
Rabbi Brenner is writing a new Haggaddah, based partly on a
finding of Immanuel Velikovsky and partly on his own discovery of
correlation between an Egyption monument and the biblical description
of the destruction of Pharoah's army. He was recently able to
identify the exact location and was invited to publish his findings in
a journal of ancient history. We discuss this every year at our Seder
Walkthrough. Read more
here
and a related poem
here (pdf).
History of Rabbinic
Judaism
One Friday night Rabbi Brenner started a discussion and we continued
it at the Shmooz class the following morning. The topic that
Rabbi
Brenner started was a discussion entitled "From Chanukah to the
parting of the ways."The topic addresses the history of the
period in which Christianity branched from the stem of Judaism.
Sects
that Rabbi Brenner discussed included the Pharisees, Saducees,
Essenes, Dead Sea Scrolls sect, Zadokites, and others.
The discussion was wide
ranging and covered a lot of the early history of Rabbinic
Judaism. Much of the basis of Rabbinic Judaism is contained in
the
Babylonian Talmud that was compiled mainly in academies in the cities
of Pumpidita and Sura. Tragically, we learned that Pumpidita, a
primary birthplace of Judaism as we know it, has been much in the
news lately. Its modern name is Fallujah.
Other controversies
We occasionally discuss the work of Immanuel Velikovsky and Zacharia
Sitchin. Their work is controversial, but begins to explain
historical issues in the Tanach (Bible) that are poorly understood and
also have correlation with unexplained modern events such as stories of
alien abduction.
Here are some links to sites that provide further information on
Velikovsky and Sitchin:
High Holiday sermons
Lessons
in Respect
In this sermon Rabbi Brenner discusses some lessons in respect learned
in his family. The full text is
here.
Jewish concepts of sin
Rabbi Brenner often points out that the Hebrew word for "sin" is a term
from archery that literally means "missing the mark." One of his
High Holiday sermons was inspired by
work of Rabbi Joseph Telushkin,
Rabbi Brenner's discourse pointed out that “our sins are often
those of omission not
commission. And its not that we do things that are evil, wicked,
bad,
immoral as much as it is inattention to opportunities of doing
good. We are guilty more of acts of omission then of
commission. What
we neglect, when we are turning away, standing idly by when there is
so much that can be done! Our delinquencies are in default in
dereliction, non-observance, non-performance and remiss.
We forget to show our
gratitude to people we don't see like the person who makes up our bed
in a hotel room. We are annoyed that when we are
inconvenienced by a
fire engine or ambulance or police car in the community when we
should be wishing and hoping for their success in their mission.
We
neglect to tell our children we apologize, we're sorry, we regret our
behavior, actions and words when we expect that from them. We
often
praise others, especially our children for achievements in sports or
academics but do not do so as when they are performing mitzvots, acts
of kindness and consideration.
And this question also
applies: “What good things happened to me this year?” Let's not
neglect that this year.
More about Rabbi Brenner can be found at his home page http://www.reevebrenner.com